In this type of relationship partners may talk about the weather, current events, and other surface topics, but seldom speak about personal issues, emotions, hopes, or wishes. Couples may feel they are living parallel lives; they enjoy that someone is there, but rarely connect in a satisfying way. 

Things may appear fine, but there is something missing. Relationships are built on trust, and communication is the key to building trust. The good news is some simple tweaks can help you better engage and experience more meaning in your relationship. 

Try being intentional about sharing your feelings with your partner. Begin building a habit of telling each other how you feel and sharing what you're thinking beyond work, the weather, and whatever is on TV.